There is every chance your Middle Years daughter has become caught in a vicious time loop in recent weeks: tasks that were handed out a month ago (but started a week ago) resulting in a sudden compression of all their waking moments into an anxious frenzy whereby there are never enough minutes in the day for them to get everything done. Yes, it’s okay – you can take a big sigh of relief – it’s not just you or your daughter feeling this way.
There is every chance your Middle Years daughter has become caught in a vicious time loop in recent weeks: tasks that were handed out a month ago (but started a week ago) resulting in a sudden compression of all their waking moments into an anxious frenzy whereby there are never enough minutes in the day for them to get everything done. Yes, it’s okay - you can take a big sigh of relief - it’s not just you or your daughter feeling this way.
As students move from Years 6 to 7 to 8 to 9, there is obviously an incremental increase in the degree of difficulty of tasks, the size and scope of assessment, and the length of time required to complete tasks to the year level standard. Many students get caught out in Term 1 - falling back on strategies that allowed them to previously ‘get by’ - only to find that bar has been raised and they desperately need to re-evaluate their approach.
The Middle Years are the perfect time for students to grapple with many of life’s big-ticket items and ‘work/life balance’ is certainly one of them. In the coming weeks, you will have an opportunity to connect with your daughter’s subject teachers during our Years 7, 8 and 9 Learning Reviews. We encourage you to cease this opportunity to have your daughter sit beside you and listen carefully to them.
Substantial evidence exists showing that parent involvement benefits students, including raising their academic achievement. There are other advantages for children when parents become involved - namely, increased motivation for learning, improved behaviour, more regular attendance, and a more positive attitude about homework and school in general.
On this topic, I humbly defer to the words of one of my favourite educational bloggers, Tim Elmore:
“The principle we must remember is personal empathy elicits positive energy. Last night, I met with my children. I was disappointed that they hadn’t followed through on a commitment they had made. I must admit, I was upset going into the conversation. But I knew that would draw a defensive or defeated reaction from them. So, I paused, took a breath and asked how they were doing. I actually invested several minutes, trying to understand their current reality. When the “follow through” issue arose, they were so ready to admit their shortcoming. They felt empowered to initiate a plan to ensure they’d keep the commitment they’d made. No adversarial exchange. Hmmm. When we lean in, they lean in.”
We look forward to reconnecting with you during our Middle Years Learning Reviews on Tuesday 29 March + Wednesday 30 March in Week 9, as well as Tuesday 5 April in Week 10 of this term. Further information pertaining to the Learning Reviews will be shared with you shortly.
Angelica Paussa
Middle Years Coordinator
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